TIMELESS TREASURE

CURE4WORRY

2008-08-02T05:08:00.000-07:00

CURE4WORRY
CURE4WORRY Current mood: artisticDON,T WORRY Because....} The Lord who formed and chosed you will helpyou.....Isa.138:8a} He will fulfil His purpose for your life...Isa.44:2} He thinks good of you and will fulfil His promisesto you...Jer.29.11} He knows you...IN and OUT..Ps.139:16} He knew you before He formed you...Jer.1:5} Of all He made you are the most important..THEFIRST FRUIT...James.1:18} In love He chosed you in Christ to beblameless....Eph.1:4} He made you to take care of you even in old yourold age...Isa.46:3-4} God will answer your prayers beyond your widestdream and expectation...Eph.3:20} He shall supply your every need according toHis heavenly Bank with Christ' signature & approval...Phil.4:19 } You can do all things through Jesus whoempowers you...Phil.4:13} With God on your side, all things arepossible...Mk.10;17} Finally God says to you:FEAR NOT ! I know whatyou are passing through right now...I AM WITH YOU..Isa41:10Notes> YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE FOR A PURPOSE.And all that you are passing through now may be part of God's divine purpose for your life....say Amen!CHEERS!!!Courtesy/. achonu57@yahoo.comPius Achonu(Brother One Way)P.O. box 4694 OnitshaAn. 430001, Nigeria

Anger Management: How To Stay Calm Instead Of Losing Your Cool

2008-08-02T04:47:00.000-07:00

Anger Management: How To Stay Calm Instead Of Losing Your Cool
By: Kim Olver
Have you ever found yourself angry with people you care about and didn’t seem able to stop yourself? Do people who love you tell you that you have anger management issues? Have you lost some important relationships or created problems for yourself at work because you couldn’t seem to control your angry behavior?If this describes you, then you need to regain control and stop yourself from hurting others. The first thing to do is to recognize that you are choosing your anger. What? Choosing my anger? Why in the world would I do that? Well, there are several reasons people may choose anger. Let’s see which one best describes you.Some people use anger to intimidate others and subsequently get what they want. In this way, the angry person is able to control the behavior of others.Some people use their anger as a way of getting attention. If a person needs attention, it doesn’t always matter whether that attention is positive or negative, as long as someone is noticing him or her.Anger can also be used as a tactic to avoid responsibility. If a person doesn’t want to do something, anger can be a valid way to get out of it.Similar to wanting attention, sometimes people are feeling small and insignificant and anger works to pump themselves up or provide courage to do something scary.And others use it as an emotional release, much the same way a pressure cooker lets off steam. Anger has energy. When someone is experiencing things that are frustrating, he or she may not be dealing with his or her anger. Instead of processing it, cognitively restructuring some belief systems or working out the energy physically, anger can provide a much needed release valve.Do you recognize yourself in any of those scenarios? When you lose your temper, which one of these reasons best identifies what you are trying to accomplish? Perhaps you have yet another reason. One thing I know for sure is that you always behave in your best attempt to get something you want. Your behavior is never random and it never “just happens" to you.It’s a very subtle difference but an important one nonetheless. All behavior is proactive. You do not choose a behavior because of something that occurred outside of you. For example, I can remember asking my youngest son to clean his room. He said he would do it later—only later never came. So, I patiently asked him a second time. Again, he said he’d do it later. This went on for most of the day. Finally, in exasperation, I lost my temper with him and yelled at him about cleaning his room.The question is why did I get angry? Most people would say I got angry because my son wouldn’t do what I asked. However, the real reason is that I used my anger as my best attempt to get my son to clean his room. (Just for the record, it didn’t work very well.)Why am I making this seemingly insignificant distinction? Because once you become conscious of the reasons you are choosing your behavior, then you can consciously choose to do something more responsible and more effective.More responsible means you are getting your needs met without interfering with other people meeting theirs. Effective means it actually works to get you what you really want.When you use anger, it is not responsible because anger almost always interferes with the other person getting his or her needs met. You definitely have not only the right, but also the responsibility to get your needs met but not at the expense of someone else.Underlying most reasons for choosing anger, you are probably attempting to improve an important relationship in your life. Anger will never work to do that. You may get the initial satisfaction of getting the other person to do your bidding, but you have damaged something in the relationship.You must make a proactive plan about what you are going to do instead of using anger. It should be something that has at least an equal chance of getting you what you want while supporting others in their process of getting their own needs met.

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Kim is an expert in relationships, parenting and personal empowerment, working with individuals who want to gain more effective control of their lives and relationships. Check out her best selling Anger Management Tip Sheet at www.therelationshipcenter.biz/angermgmtSL.htm

DAILY SPIRITUAL SALAD....4U

2008-08-02T04:39:00.000-07:00

Special Gift:SPIRITUAL VITAMINS...DAILY POWER FOR ALL-ROUND VICTORIOUS LIVING.

This is a Special gift package to you =Courtesy:GLOBAL PRAYER NETWORK achonu57@yahoo.com Read and meditate on these Bible verses daily and you will never lack any good thing in life.Your life will never remain the same.Living on the Word of God daily keep demons miles away from your domain. God bless you as you "feed" on God,s Word, Amen!

DAY 1.....2nd Chron.16:9---------------------------The eye of the Lord
2.....Lamentation.3:37------------------------Who is that man?
3.....Jer.29:11-----------------------------------------Good thoughts
4.......Psalms 91:16-----------------------------With long life
5......Jer.1:5----------------------------------------I know you
6......Exod. 23:23---------------------------------My Angel
7......Psalms 125:1-2...........................Trust God
8.......Obad. Vs.17-------------------------------Deliverance
9.......Matth. 7:7------------------------------------Ask
10.....Isa.49:15......................................I won't forget you
11....Num. 23:19...................................God is not a man
12 ...Jer. 32:27.......................................Nothing is too hard
13.....Jn.10:28.........................................They shall not perish
14......Isa.31:3.........................................Men not God
15.....Isa.41:10..........................................Fear not
16......Isa.44:8..........................................No other God
17.....Psalms.37:25...................................You won't beg
18......Isa. 3:10..........................................It shall be well
19......Psalms.118:24..................................Rejoice daily
20......Job.22:28.........................................You shall decree
21......1Jn.5:14...........................................If you ask
22.......Job.22:25.........................................Your defence
23.......Isa.26:3............................................Perfect peace
24.....Prov. 10:22.........................................Blessings of God
25.....Job.5:22..............................................In famine...
26.....Isa.54:4................................................Not be ashamed
27.....Hag.2:8................................................Silver & Gold
28.....Exod.14:14..........................................Not your battle
29.....Deut.28:7.............................................They shall fall
30.....Isa.45:3................................................Hidden treasure
31.....Psalms.34:10.........................................No lack for you

Hope you are glad with these scriptures,let us know so we can pray for you and may be send you another precious gift you can not refuse.Mail to achonu57@yahoo.com
Note: foward this mail to others and expect God's blessings upon your life.

Why Haven’t I Created The Life I Want?

2008-08-02T03:49:00.000-07:00

Why Haven’t I Created The Life I Want?
By: Ophelia Nicholson
One of the most amazing things about being human is that every dream or creation leads us to want to dream bigger, or to create a bigger dream than the ones we had before. One of the main reasons why your life looks the way it does right now is YOU WEREN'T SPECIFIC ENOUGH. Thought you'd never have to hear that again, right? And so we got a version of what we wanted, but it wasn’t the complete version. See, we spend a lot of time looking at what we don’t want, but very little being very specific about what we do want. I remember one day I wrote what my perfect guy looked like; I thought I wrote everything … everything that was, except his personality. Well within 3 days the guy matching my description showed up, with a personality I couldn’t stand!My prosperity partners and I were doing a project once (and I have to tell you it's the hardest thing waiting for 3 other people’s opinions!) At one point during the project there were objections about different things; one was about the color we were using for the project, for example. For the first time I truly understood how GOD/UNIVERSE operated ~ minus my frustration of course ~ but I kept thinking ‘If you just tell me what color you want I'll make it happen. I don’t care, I want whatever you want, but you have to know what you want.’ You can’t just say ‘I don’t like the red balloons’, well what color balloons do you want?Days, weeks, months pass and no answer comes.Well, I can’t read minds people and neither can the Universe/GOD. The universe/GOD will give you exactly what you want every single time…IF you just tell it/him what you want. But if you give a general description then that’s what you get; something fitting that general description.Another reason your lives are the way they are is because we forget the dreams we put into creation. As time goes by, you forget that last week you wanted something…3 years ago you wanted something else…and when you add the fact that you weren’t specific in the first place, it’s easy to see that when it comes into your life 3 or 4 years down the line you don’t even recognize it. You treat it as some random thing happening to you. Ever see someone wanting a Red car but not saying ‘I want a red car that runs smoothly and is reliable’? Well then they get the red car, but it breaks down every day and they say ‘This isn’t what I wanted!’ Or someone with a spouse; they wanted this person at one point. But now it’s more like ‘This isn’t what I wanted!’ Maybe they forgot to ask for someone who was faithful, or for someone who had the same values as they did.Did you ever truly know what you wanted? Did you ever write it out, or were you too busy saying ‘I don’t want to be single anymore. I want a spouse!’? ‘I don’t want to be broke anymore; I want to have more money!’ News flash: a penny is more money. So when the Universe sent you that one penny laying on the floor it fulfilled your wishes. ‘That's not what I meant’ you say. Remember, the Universe/God can’t read minds. You never said how much. So maybe you didn’t know how much you wanted, or even better you didn’t want to decide because if you did, you may not get as much as you could get, right? Well, ‘more money’ is very general, so it may not be quite what you had in mind by the time it gets here.How about the job that you have? Did you think about describing your coworkers? How about the boss you wanted? Nope, you didn’t…because you don’t really believe you have any control.The next reason is YOU KEEP CHANGING YOUR MIND. How many times have you changed your mind in the last hour, or the last year? We change our minds all the time, constantly rearranging and changing and readjusting the thought, and so by the time it gets here it's virtually unrecognizable.This is excerpted from the book “You are already living the life of your dreams” by Ophelia Nicholson.

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Ophelia Nicholson is a Prosperity Coach and Author For more information,free videos,meditation and articles please visit www.breathingprosperity.com. Don't Miss our FREE Crossing the Wealth Gap Teleconference -Sign up at www.breathingprosperity.com/wealthgap.html Cross over into Wealth----------------------------